get over him!

I'm so happy with my life…content that’s the right word for it…but I am not the reason why I am writing…

I have been going around looking at other peoples profiles remembering all the things I knew about them…their love stories and the like…I must hand it to every girl who has been hurt and moved on with just wonderful memories in her heart that she shared the man that used to love her (or at least pretended to).

I am writing this blog in response to every profile I read with words in their profile saying they have moved on but has not really. For most girls it takes eons of years to get over the guy we "designated" as our perfect man/boyfriend. Yeah crazy as it sounds…buts it is true YEARS. You may say you arer over and done with the old beau but you know in your heart you are not.

Been there done that. Listed below are a few things you can do to move on. (This are based on stories from other individuals and myself)

· Eat sweets (increase your endorphins!)

· Don’t eat too much! (emotional eating won't help your situation)

· Bathe regularly (use nice smelling bath gels or scrubs)

· Use a good perfume (a nice smell attracts people and helps your mood)

· Date ONLY potential husbands (don't waste your time)

· Find THE NEW GUY (a new guy will help you forget the old chap)

· Get closer to God (got to mass or pray more)

· Write your thoughts (online journals makes it better because you will get comments from other people that will help you)

· Look for flaws from the new girlfriend (yeah that works)

· Learn to dance (Latin or other dramatic dances will help)

· Learn to sing (or if you are good at it sing a lot and with FEELINGS!)

· Admit to yourself you are still hurting

· Have a good demanding job (make sure its well compensated)

· Laugh a lot

· Watch movies

· Say hello to all the friends you left out while you were so absorbed with your past

· Meet up with them

· Put all the things he gave away in a box (burn it or better give it away)

· Get a wax (feel the pain!)

· Clean your eyebrows (thread it so it would look better)

· Go to the gym

· Shop for great clothes (make sure they look great on you not on the model)

· Run or bike

· Smile :D

· Learn a new language

· Get a pet

· Have regular facials

· Get a massage

· Avoid being cranky all the time

· If someone greets you…greet back (not only do you become polite you will realize you are not invisible after all)

· Learn to use make-up (pretty yourself girl)

· Look great (make him realize your awesome)

· Don't get back with him or try to win him back, especially if he has a new girl. (if he dumped you he is not worth your while and your love.

· Add knowledge, read (teach yourself new things or ideas)

· have your nails done

· Get a new hair do

· make yourself useful to your community (get involved)

Whatever you do make sure you are happy inside and out. When you really are happy it will show. Be great and stop moping around girl move on! (he has).